U.S. Soccer

My Mexico Moment: Oguchi Onyewu Remembers the Stare Down

Oguchi Onyewu’s first Mexico moment isn’t one he remembers fondly.

Entering a final round World Cup Qualifying match on March 27, 2005, the promising young defender with only two caps to his name was handed his toughest test to date when then-head coach Bruce Arena elected to start him in central defense in the U.S. Men’s National Team’s quadrennial visit to Estadio Azteca in Mexico City.

“You hear the stories about Azteca, but you can’t quite grasp it until you’re in it,” Onyewu told ussoccer.com. “The altitude in the stadium, the fans and the atmosphere plays an even bigger part in making it one of the toughest places to play in the world.”

Partnering with Gregg Berhalter on the back line, the 6-4 center back was also given the unenviable task of marking Mexico’s all-time leading goal scorer Jared Borgetti. The veteran forward, known for his aerial prowess, broke free from Onyewu in the 30th minute to deliver the hosts the opening goal. Beyond his goal, Borgetti gave Onyewu fits most of the match, helping Mexico to a 2-1 win while providing the budding U.S. center back a difficult lesson in World Cup Qualifying.

“Borgetti is a mainstay in Mexican soccer history. He got a goal and unfortunately rained on my parade. It was a definite eye-opener for my first USA-Mexico game at Azteca Stadium.”

Oguchi Onyewu battles Jared Borgetti in 2005 World Cup Qualifier vs. Mexico

Despite the loss, the U.S. cruised through “The Hex” that year, winning its next four matches. Onyewu appeared in two of those wins – a 2-0 victory three days later against Guatemala and 1-0 shutout against Trinidad & Tobago that August – and picked up even more international seasoning that summer by helping the U.S. lift the 2005 CONCACAF Gold Cup. 

Those results had the MNT riding a nine-match unbeaten streak heading into September’s rematch against Mexico in Columbus. With both teams making quick work of their qualifying opponents, a win for either side that night meant they would be the first from CONCACAF to punch a ticket to the 2006 FIFA World Cup.

Putting the bigger picture aside, the rematch had personal meaning for Onyewu.   

“After the first game and our loss I definitely was looking forward to the home game in Columbus,” he said. “It was about redemption for myself, but also to rectify the result that we didn’t get in Mexico City. I was extremely focused, as well as everyone else on our team, but I definitely was not about to let Borgetti get the better of me two times around.”

In order to do that, Onyewu focused his efforts on physically frustrating Borgetti from the first whistle and set the tone for the one-on-one clash in the ninth minute. A ball played for Borgetti up the left flank saw him immediately shadowed by Onyewu. The two grappled down the touch line before Carlos Batres blew his whistle to indicate a free kick.

While a foul was committed by Onyewu, it also served to get under Borgetti’s skin, with the veteran forward immediately popping up to throw verbal jabs at the towering defender.

What happened next has become one of the most iconic moments in the USA-Mexico rivalry.

With Borgetti animated in his frustrations toward his marker, Onyewu didn’t respond. Instead, he chose to kindly brush aside the Mexico forward’s protests with an intimidating look that has come to be known in U.S. Soccer circles as “The Stare Down”.

“Obviously in that moment, it never was my objective for that stare to become as big as it has,” Onyewu said. “It’s just one of those moments in the game, and it was such a physical battle between him and I.

“What I remember is that I knocked him down, he got up and he looked like he was going to do something to me and I was really hoping he would. I don’t know what would have happened next, but I was expecting something would have happened. I’m just staring at him like, ‘Either do something or don’t do something.’ I guess that image is forever imprinted in U.S. Soccer history. That image itself speaks of the whole subject of that game in Columbus, Ohio against Mexico.”

The moment sent a message to Borgetti that the match would be altogether different from March’s encounter at Azteca. At the other end of the field, Onyewu's header off the left post setup Steve Ralston's go-ahead goal in the 53rd minute before DaMarcus Beasley added the second five minutes later. Onyewu indeed gained redemption as his play on both sides of the ball earned him Man of the Match honors. 

And while a victory against Mexico always provides a reason to celebrate, bigger party plans were in order that night as the U.S. booked its spot at the 2006 FIFA World Cup in Germany.

“We had confirmed our berth in the World Cup and we were just celebrating and happy,” Onyewu said. “I think that’s the only thing that was on our minds: the fact that we accomplished our goal and we had something even bigger to look forward to.” 

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MNT Nov 2, 2016

My Mexico Moment: Steve Ralston

As he prepared to start in the U.S. Men’s National Team’s decisive World Cup Qualifying match on Sept. 3, 2005, veteran midfielder Steve Ralston approached the game like he would any other.

With a chance to clinch a berth at the 2006 FIFA World Cup against rivals Mexico, the size of the occasion only hit the 31-year-old as the team bus turned the final corner into Columbus Crew Stadium.

“Wow, this is big,” Ralston recalled saying to himself as the bus rode through a large sea of red, white and blue into the stadium. “There were so many people there so early. Hours before the game, people on both sides were out in numbers. To see the American support was tremendous. It always felt good, but more so for this game.”

It was quite a scene for a player whose earlier career wouldn’t predict he would be any more than a spectator at the match. A native of soccer-mad St. Louis, Ralston was a spot starter for Oakville High School and barely cracked the first XI during his freshman year at Forest Park Community College. Not a bad player, but also not one you’d pick out as a future National Team contributor.

A successful transfer to Florida International University in 1993 changed things, leading to the right-sided attacker becoming a prime prospect for Major League Soccer’s inaugural season in 1996. With an uncanny ability to serve a ball from the right and pop up at opportune moments, Ralston carved out a fine career with the Tampa Bay Mutiny and New England Revolution in the league’s nascent years. His early play earned him sporadic call-ups to the MNT under both Steve Sampson and later Bruce Arena, but he only received a regular role in the side six years after his initial debut.  


MNT midfielder Steve Ralston celebrates DaMarcus Beasley's goal vs. Mexico that gave the USA a 2-0 win in World Cup Qualifying on Sept. 3, 2005.

Coming off a strong season with the Revolution in 2004, Ralston enjoyed an extended run with the MNT in 2005, as his ability on the right side allowed Arena to push Landon Donovan further up the field in an attacking midfield or withdrawn forward role. Having helped the USA to its third Gold Cup title earlier that summer, Ralston actually tied Donovan for most appearances with 15 that year.

“I hadn’t played a whole lot of qualifiers previous to that year, maybe one or two,” said Ralston, who appeared in eight final round World Cup qualifiers that year. “I’d been around the National Team for a number of years, but I never really had the opportunity to play in the big games, so for me, being included against Mexico was a great thing to be a part of.”

A scoreless first half was best-remembered for some of the physical altercations between USA defender Oguchi Onyewu and Mexico forward Jared Borgetti.

Coming out of the locker room at the break, Ralston said he remembered how much the U.S. worked on set pieces in the week leading up to the match. With dead-ball servers Eddie Lewis, Claudio Reyna and Donovan all on the field, his role on the night was to find space in the box when those opportunities presented themselves.

All the practice paid off in the 53rd minute.

Lewis swung in a left-footed free kick that Onyewu rose above Mexico defender Francisco Rodriguez to head off the left post. As the ball then careened toward the middle of the goal mouth, it set-up perfectly for Ralston to head home from close range.

“Obviously I’m not a huge target, but I could be active in the box and try to find some room on second balls,” he said about his fourth and final international goal. “I just happened to be in the right place at the right time. It came off the post and came right to me and if I would have missed that one, it would have been pretty embarrassing. It was probably one of the easiest goals I’ve ever scored, but definitely the most important.”

The finish re-sparked the pro-U.S. crowd and opened the door for DaMarcus Beasley to make it 2-0 on a well-played set piece five minutes later. Playing a short corner on the right, Donovan pushed the ball back for Reyna as Beasley bolted towards the area. Recognizing the run, the U.S. captain quickly slid the ball through for Beasley, who measured a lethal effort inside the top left corner.

While Ralston admitted Beasley’s finish was top-class, he says he still gives his former teammate grief for being so selfish on the strike.

“If you look at the replay, I’m wide open on Beaz’s left. If he would have passed it to me, I would have had two that day. Of course he has to shoot, score and steal all the glory,” he joked.

Though he played a significant role in getting the side to Germany, Ralston’s dreams of playing at the World Cup sputtered the in the build-up the following year.

Picking up a quad ailment during January camp, he only returned to take part in the MNT’s last friendly before the final roster announcement, a 1-1 draw with Jamaica in April. With one last chance to impress, the midfielder again tweaked his quad during the match, effectively ending his hopes of a spot on the final 23-man roster, though he was named as one of 13 alternates.

“Being in the locker room after the game, I knew right then. I thought to myself, ‘There goes that.’ It was hard…I was gutted.”

In that moment, Ralston vividly thought back to Arena being asked about the final World Cup roster following the MNT’s 2-0 win against Mexico the previous September.

“I remember Bruce saying, ‘You never know what’s going to happen with a roster of players that come in and out’ and that’s what happened. Not just to me, but others. Players find form, injuries occur, and I ended up being an alternate. That’s just how it went.”

Despite missing out on the World Cup, Ralston, now an assistant to Dominic Kinnear with the San Jose Earthquakes, takes pride in the contributions he made to the MNT over the years, specifically that game-winner on a memorable night in Columbus.

“To qualify against your biggest rival at home was special,” he said. “For me to be playing with the National Team, to help score a goal against your big rival and qualify for the World Cup, was a really big high.”


By virtue of their 2-0 win vs. Mexico during Qualifying in 2005, Ralston and the USA qualified for the 2006 FIFA World Cup in Germany.

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MNT Oct 19, 2016

Gallery: A Second Straight Dos a Cero in Columbus

The Final Round World Cup Qualifier on Sept. 3, 2005 between the USA and Mexico at Columbus Crew Stadium in Columbus, Ohio saw the USA turn a happy scoreline into the nascent "dos a cero" tradition by beating El Tri 2-0 on home soil in a second consecutive Hexagonal. Read more
MNT Sep 19, 2016
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